Kleptomania is a rare impulse control disorder characterized by an overwhelming urge to steal items not needed for personal use or monetary value. This compulsion often leads to intense feelings of guilt and shame. At Still Mind, we’re committed to helping individuals navigate kleptomania with compassionate, evidence-based care.

What Is Kleptomania?

Kleptomania is a mental health disorder where individuals experience an irresistible urge to steal items, often of little value or need, without motives like financial gain or revenge. The American Psychiatric Association classifies it as an impulse control disorder in the DSM-5, distinct from shoplifting, which is typically planned1. People with kleptomania feel tension before stealing and relief afterward, per Cleveland Clinic2.

How common is kleptomania?

Kleptomania affects 0.6–0.8% of the general population, with 3.8–24% prevalence among shoplifters, and is more common in women (3:1 ratio), per NIH studies34. Onset is typically in adolescence, with treatment often sought in one’s 30s (women) or 50s (men)3.

The Experience of Kleptomania: What Does It Feel Like?

Kleptomania involves a cycle of urge, action, and remorse. A 2019 HealthyPlace article described it as “a desperate need to steal to ease inner tension,” followed by guilt5. Common experiences include:

  • Urge and Tension: A growing need to steal, often triggered by stress, per Mayo Clinic6.
  • Relief or Reward: Feeling pleasure or calm during theft, noted in a 2022 study7.
  • Guilt and Shame: Distress after stealing, as NAMI highlights8.
  • Secrecy: Hiding behaviors due to fear of legal or social consequences, per MedicalNewsToday9.

These experiences can lead to isolation, as individuals struggle with stigma and fear of judgment5.

Causes and Risk Factors of Kleptomania

Kleptomania arises from a mix of psychological, biological, and environmental factors, per a 2018 NIH study3:

  • Trauma: Childhood trauma, like abuse or neglect, is linked to 25% of cases, per a 2022 University of Edinburgh study10.
  • Mental Health Conditions: Depression (45–100%), anxiety (up to 80%), and eating disorders (up to 60%) often co-occur, per a 2002 study711.
  • Neurobiology: Serotonin and dopamine dysregulation, plus reduced white matter in frontal brain regions, drive impulsivity, per ScienceDirect12.
  • Family History: A parent or sibling with kleptomania or addiction increases risk, per Cleveland Clinic2.

What triggers kleptomania?

Triggers include stress, emotional distress, or access to stealing opportunities, as WebMD notes13. For example, a stressful event might prompt an urge to steal to cope.

Impact on Daily Life and Mental Health

Kleptomania can disrupt lives significantly, per a 2024 study11:

  • Legal Risks: 25% of kleptomaniacs face arrests, per NIH3.
  • Emotional Distress: Shame and guilt worsen depression or anxiety, as NAMI notes8.
  • Social Isolation: Secrecy strains relationships, leading to withdrawal.
  • Co-occurring Issues: 23–50% develop substance misuse, per a 2021 study11.

Untreated kleptomania can lead to a cycle of shame and stealing, necessitating professional support10.

Lived Experiences of Kleptomania

Kleptomania feels like a battle between compulsion and conscience. A 2019 HealthyPlace article described it as “stealing to fill an emotional void,” followed by regret5. Individuals often hide their behavior, fearing legal or social repercussions, per NAMI8. For example, someone might steal small items from a store, feeling a rush but later hiding them out of shame.

Kleptomaniacs may view themselves as “flawed,” eroding self-esteem. Therapy can help reframe these impulses as treatable, per Psychology Today14.

Treatment and Management Strategies

Treatment focuses on controlling impulses and addressing underlying issues, per a 2023 MedicalNewsToday guide9. Still Mind recommends:

  • Psychotherapy: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), especially with mindfulness, reduces symptoms and improves quality of life, per a 2022 study15.
  • Medication: Naltrexone and SSRIs (e.g., fluoxetine) may reduce urges, though a 2007 Stanford study found mixed results for escitalopram516.
  • Behavioral Strategies: Journaling behaviors and avoiding triggers (e.g., shopping alone) help manage urges, per Cleveland Clinic2.
  • Support Systems: Support groups or family therapy reduce isolation, as NAMI advises8.

A 2022 study found 59% of patients improved with CBT and mindfulness, despite some dropouts15. Early intervention is key.

Kleptomania, with its compulsive urges and emotional toll, can disrupt lives through shame, legal issues, and isolation. At Still Mind, we offer compassionate, evidence-based care through CBT, medication, and support systems to help individuals regain control. If you or a loved one struggles with kleptomania, reaching out to our team is a vital step toward healing and a life free from compulsive stealing.


References

  1. Kleptomania – American Psychological Association, 2023
  2. Kleptomania – Cleveland Clinic, 2023
  3. Kleptomania: Clinical Features and Treatment – National Institutes of Health, 2013
  4. Mental Disorders – National Institute of Mental Health, 2023
  5. Kleptomania Symptoms and Treatment – HealthyPlace, 2019
  6. Kleptomania – Mayo Clinic, 2022
  7. Kleptomania: A Report of 20 Cases – Comprehensive Psychiatry, 2002
  8. Impulse Control Disorders – NAMI, 2023
  9. What Is Kleptomania? – MedicalNewsToday, 2023
  10. Kleptomania: Symptoms and Treatment – The Recovery Village, 2020
  11. Cognitive-Behavioural Group Therapy with Mindfulness for Kleptomania – Cambridge Core, 2022
  12. Kleptomania Medication Study – Stanford News, 2007